Shame on you Instagram.

I'm pretty disappointed right now. Yesterday I learned that someone flagged my photo and Instagram deemed it inappropriate, then deleted it. No, not any bikini pics, but this one...

Maybe I'm clueless here, but I see absolutely NOTHING wrong with the picture. I see a little girl mimicking her Mother doing the most natural thing in the world. I don't usually express my OPINIONS on here because everyone has them and obviously they are all different. I'm shocked that anyone would see something wrong with this picture honestly, there is nothing wrong with me teaching my daughter that feeding a baby from your breast is OK. Is it the only way, absolutely not? Is it the best way, well that depends on you. Every situation is different and you can be a terrific Mother by bottle or by breast.  

I do not only give Aiden breast milk, he gets a bottle of formula when I just need a break. Sometimes it's more convenient for me to give him a bottle when we are on the go and sometimes I just don't feel like whipping out my breast at the dinner table and that's OK. Do I feel like breast milk is better for him than formula? Yes. That's why I chose to breastfeed, plus I get more sleep at night by boob than I do by bottle :)

I think far too many women feel uncomfortable breastfeeding, the numbers of times I've known someone who didn't breastfeed 'just because' is shocking.  I don't want my daughter to feel that way, we are very open with how babies are fed. She's fed him a bottle a few times and if this picture was of her giving her baby doll a bottle there would be no issue. I grew up with a Mother who nursed for YEARSSSSSSS which is probably why I'm comfortable doing it at home or in public. 

I enjoyed sharing this on Instagram and reading all the comments about women who remember their child doing this or themselves doing this when they were young. I hope Madison remembers this too! 

So shame on you Instagram for sending the message that this is wrong and to the person who reported it, I'm sorry you are so closed minded that you can't see all the good that is in the picture, even if it's not 'your thing'. 



Favorites: Baby Style

I love to share my favorite finds with you guys, I find some of the best items off recommendations from others! So here are my top picks for baby.

1. Rock 'n Play Sleeper: this has got to be the best new item for a baby in the last 20 years. Seriously. There are so many reasons I love it, he sleeps great in it, I don't have to worry about him choking or rolling over in his sleep {which means I sleep better!}, it's super light weight {I carried it in one hand with him and the carseat in the other out to the car no problem}, it folds up for easy transportation, and did I mention he sleeps great in it?? We also love to tote it outdoors when it's nice so I can play with Madison.

2. Ubbi Steel Diaper Pail in White: We are still loving our cloth dipes, but the smell can be overwhelming if not properly contained. This diaper pail is made of steel so the smell doesn't absorb, plus they are easy to use {Madison is in charge of taking the dirty to the bin} All the pretty colors don't hurt either :) I also use the washable liner and just throw it in with a load of diapers to wash it.

3.The Windi Gas and Colic Reliever for Babies : When it's 3 am and your baby is crying from gas this little thing is a lifesaver. Its super easy to use and very effective - much better than gripe water although more expensive. To use you just massage their belly in a downward motion and them lift and insert this in their booty, it whistles as the trapped air comes out!

4.Summer Infant SwaddleMe : This was my favorite swaddle with Madison too, it's just so easy to wrap and unwrap and it gets a nice tight fit so he can't bust out! I've always used the micro-fleece, but I may try some of their lighter weight ones for the summer.

And just because they are so dang cute together....



When the going gets tough...

Today's post is going to be full of a lot of bitching, that's just the mood I'm in today. My weight is just NOT. FREAKING. MOVING.
It's just so frustrating to be putting in so much work and not getting any results. I spend 200 bucks a week keeping a stock of fresh produce and healthy food in my house, I get my ass to the gym even when I'm up with a new baby at night, I track all the foods that go in my mouth. You know what's a load of BS? 'Weight loss is simple, just burn more than you take in'.

My alarm went off at 4:15am this morning and I weighed myself, when I saw that same weight as last week I honestly just wanted to skip my workout and go back to bed. I was tired and that little nagging voice in the back of my mind was chanting 'what's the point?'

I went though because for all the years I've been doing this I know this: if I do nothing then nothing will change. 

Top is from Fancy Fit Boutique.

I tried to change my attitude, all I saw when I looked in the mirror were my flaws. I hate those days. I wanted to come home and just put on sweats while I snacked on Easter candy and snuggled my baby. That sounds fun, but it sure wouldn't improve my attitude. So I stayed at the gym until I sweat a good sweat and felt those endorphins throughout my body. 

I came home, snuggled my baby and made myself pretty. It helped, I felt better. I may still be rockin' the flowy shirts and leggings, but a little hair and makeup go a long way.

Today I won't give up, I will track my food, I will make good choices, I will be positive. It will happen, I know, but please weight loss Gods, through a girl a bone! 



Perfect Spring Weekend

Spring weather is finally sticking around here in Dallas so we try to spend as much time outdoors as we can before it get's sweltering hot. Friday I took the kiddos to the Arboretum, it was jam freaking packed. School buses everywhere!! Baby Aiden and I had to match, again, boys really can be fun to dress! I just died at the cuteness of those white linen pants from H&M. 

Twilight Sparkle honestly feels she's a supermodel so this is what I get for every picture. 

Shockingly Oliver has never ever been camping or slept in a tent. Obviously he's led a very sheltered life. I grew up in a family of 6 and we didn't have a lot of money so every vacation was a camping trip. I will never ever live down the time we all went 'hiking' and my Mom got us lost on the Bluebird Trail in the forest and I sat my ass down on the ground and refused to walk any further. Maybe that's why my brother calls me Princess Megan. Anyways Madison got a tent and sleeping bags for her birthday so Oliver and her put them to use in my parents backyard {they have 3 acres} complete with a fire for smores.  She loved it and they slept out there all night despite the rain, maybe I haven't prissed her up too much :)

Sunday we celebrated Easter with my family and took a few bluebonnet pictures. If you live in Texas it's a must every spring, droves of people pull over on the side of the road where ever the wildflower is growing and take pictures. 

Ahhhhhhhh this is us in 2012, time is just flying by. Also this makes me want to drop and do 100 push ups, I miss those biceps!

I'm halfway through my maternity leave and I'm trying to savor every day I have with this lil guy. Logically I know all the reasons I decided to work, but when they are this snuggly it's hard to think about leaving them. Maybe I can sneak him into my office and snuggle him while I work :) 



Random and Mostly Awesome.

I had a bit of a rough week last week which started with a huge dentist bill. again. I already spent a butt-load last year at the dentist and I was really hoping to not have to do that again, but apparently that's not happening. I'm getting a root canal and crown next Tuedsay. Yay. At this rate I'm never going to be able to save for my boob repair. ugh. 
To top off the week I did this.

Yep, my nice pretty new car!! I don't know what happened, but I turned into a parking spot too sharp and rubbed the car next to me.  This was at Madison's dance class so I had to walk into a waiting room full of women and announce that I hit a car and who's was it. Good times. Then I had to turn on the water works when I called Oliver so he would be 'cool' about it. It's a good thing both car-seats don't fit in his truck or he would insist I drive that huge monster around.

Not everything was a bust. In fact the Easter bunny photos turned out fabulous, both kids were perfect!

I got their matching outfits from Lolly Wolly Doodle, sure glad I sized up for little baby Aiden. Already rocking 3 month clothes!

My top is Sugar Love Boutique // his is Carters.
Despite a few meltdowns {usually involving a falling binky} he's a really good baby. It's a good thing I tied my tubes cause I could have another if they are as sweet as him! Oliver's trying to steal my new best friend, not going to happen! This one is mine :)

My new Brady Bands came in yesterday, I'm loving this pink dressy one! They inspired me to get a few new workout pieces from Old Navy to accommodate my after baby body. A few loose flowy tops to hide the temporary muffin going on :) Madison loves to go and visit her 'family' in the front of the store and while we were there my sister caught her in the dressing room.

Love this kid.

We are off to a fun filled day at the Arboretum! Have a safe and happy Easter!



Small projects always lead to bigger ones!

It was such a gorgeous sunrise this morning I had to snap a picture on my way home from the gym. Those colors just make my heart happy - probably why I love to color up my home.

Remember when I used my birthday as a 'yes honey' day and had my husband go pick up a table off Craigslist?

Well this is the only 'before' picture I took, oops. The table and chairs have a pretty shape to them, but the oak top and red chair seats left much to be desired. I kinda wanted a coral table, but Oliver HATES orange - which is what he says coral is. I usually don't give him much say, but when he expresses extreme hate I try to work around it ;)

I decided to use a fabulous fabric instead of painting it, I found this at Hobby Lobby. 

I spent one day sanding the top and the lacquer finish was proving very difficult to remove. Plan B was to use the Rustoleum Cabinet Transformation on it, which require no sanding. Either my product was old or I didn't mix it well, but it turned into a sludgy mess. Plan C was to text my awesome neighbors and beg for help, which would be why it's so beautiful and perfect now!

I moved my Over dyed Rug from my bedroom to in here for a better pop of color and I must say I absolutely loveeeeeee how it all came together. 
Curtains tutorial - click here.
Mirror tutorial - click here.

We will be having some big changes coming up! I happened to win a pretty fabulous prize - a house full of tile and granite for my kitchen! Eeek! We are going to rip out all the existing floors {that are not carpeted} and tile with planks of 'wood grain' porcelain.

I'm leaning more towards this color, but maybe a tad darker. I like the weathered look though.

and maybe a fun pattern....

and we thought while we were getting granite we may as well redo the kitchen cabinets. Now thats a huge undertaking and I just don't have the time so we are going to get some quotes. This is my color inspiration....

I love the grey cabinets with the white counters - gorgeous! Oliver actually liked this to so I hope it's not going to cost my first born to get them painted. We will likely start this when I go back to work so I have a few weeks to finalize my decisions. If anyones knows a great cabinet person in DFW please send me the deets!



Weghing In

Another week, another weigh in.
189 - which is a 1 pound loss for the week. Not bad considering I had a few slip ups. Saturdays are the hardest for me because I'm just gone from the house all day and usually let myself get overly hungry which leads to bad choices. Like a hamburger. My goal this week is to plan my weekends better! I do fine if I stay home, but Saturdays are my Mom's only day off so it's usually a shopping/errand/soccer/birthday party kind of day.

I have been back at the gym for a little over a week now and everyday it gets better. I'm playing in a soccer tournament in San Antonio in 2 weeks so I need to get my cardio up, 3 games is a lot of running! I find it helps tremendously if I wear two bras, the boobs are very uncomfortable right now. 

I'm easing back into weights, the biggest issue with that is how sore I am afterwards. Like can't sit to pee sore. I'm having absolutely zero pain in my csection area which is fantastic.

I dusted off my Polar, the battery was dead and I had to get it replaced. I've been burning between 600-900 calories at the gym and right now I'm trying not to eat those back because I'm already adding in around 300 for breastfeeding. Like I stated before I've never had milk supply issues, everyone is different! 

I've found a nice selection of sauces at Sprouts that have made for some easy and yummy stir-fry's!  
Today I'm going to make some Protein Peanut Butter Caramel Cups, hopefully they are as good as they look. 

andddddd just because he's so freaking cute in his lil Polo outfit with his baby toes!



Make Your Bum Happy

Toilet paper is a hot topic in my house. Seriously.

I've been in trouble NUMEROUS times with Oliver for buying the wrong kind - this stems from my avoidance of reading labels. See we have a septic system with our house and I had to learn what you can and can't do when you own one. You HAVE to use "Septic Safe" toilet paper or you will be shelling out a crap ton of money to get it pumped. Which just sounds gross.
I prefer a nice toilet paper, like Cottonelle, which I can't always trust my husband to pick up from the store. So I got smart and used my Prime Membership from Amazon to get it delivered on a schedule. Prime honestly makes my life so much easier!!

Feel Fresher and Cleaner with Cottonelle Cleansing Cloths

We've all been there. 

Madison may be a 'kid' now that she's 5, but we STILL deal with 'wiping' issues. I don't know maybe her arms are short??? She can't fully reach around and get a good and clean bum so we still use Flushable Cottenelle Wipes for her.  Fresh As A Baby’s Bum!

Time to Come Clean! I use the Cottenelle Wipes as my 'omg I have to go RIGHT FREAKING NOW' backup running wipes. Any runner who has been there knows what I'm talking about and never trust a porta potty to have tp, I carry a few in a small ziplock in my bra when I do long runs. 

The Cottonelle® Fresh Care Flushable Cleansing Cloths feature SafeFlush Technology, so they not only offer you a confident clean but also start to break down immediately after flushing.

Product Details:
- Flushable
- Break up after flushing
- Sewer- and septic-safe
- Alcohol-free
- OneTouch dispensing tub
- Great for the entire family

This post is sponsored by Cottonelle, but my love for their flushable cleansing cloths is all my own!

Hop on over to the Cottonelle Facebook page for more bum info!
Thanks to Cottonelle for sponsoring today's discussion


Party Weekend.

Thank you to everyone who helped me raise money for my March of Dimes walk this past Saturday! I enjoyed these girls coming out to walk the 5 miles with me and Baby Aiden was so good the entire time! Life sure is different with an 'easy' baby, now I see why people have multiple kids :)

Twilight Sparkle went with the g-parents and Oliver hunting for eggs, which was over in less than 90 seconds. You have to be aggressive to get those suckers! Also she had to be bribed to stand with the fancy bunny.

We celebrated her birthday on Sunday at Sugar and Spice in downtown McKinney.

Her dress is from Etsy and the quality is freaking amazing! 
Her cake is from Say it with Sugar - delishhhhh.
Her necklace is a Sprinklings.

They start out by picking whatever they want to wear from a great selection of dress up clothing - jewelry, shoes, and boa's too!

They worked on a craft project while everyone was getting hair and make up done.

The girls that worked there were awesome, the 'princess' hairstyles they created were amazing! I should have watched so I could try to recreate it.

Her favorite part of the party was the karaoke, also I'm never buying one of these for home :) Ever. I heard enough Frozen to last me a lifetime!

There was a fashion show which was hilarous, these girls and there poses!

After a 'tea' lunch of sammy's and muffins we sang Happy Birthday.

I'm was so impressed with the coordination of the party place, it made it much more enjoyable for me {and my mom} to just sit back and relax and not have to do all the work! Plus the girls had a blast and I didn't have to clean anything up afterwards.

In fact it was the perfect afternoon to take a rainy day nap while watching a movie :)



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